Sunday, October 4, 2009
Case by case basis
Problem 1You badmouth people and yet you talked the wrong things??? Trying to attract our attention?? Let me tell you, it's never going to happen. Don wait; don ponder. We just ain't giving you the chance to even talk to us. Twisting and turning of words in front of people. 2 different set of stories from the original occurrence! You think that we wouldn't give get the change to know a single stuff? YOU'RE UTTERLY WRONG!! THAT'S ALL THAT I CAN SAY. You let people misunderstood that we were against them. In the actual fact that we aren't against them but you! So here's the advice! Get lost and find a world of your own. You love backstabbing so find some other place and other target to back-stab. You choose the wrong target. Here's a warning. SHOULD YOU NOT STOP AND MORE PROBLEMS PERSIST, BEAR THE CONSEQUENCES YOURSELF! :)
Problem 2You want things to silent down and people eventually forgetting it after some time. Yes! Its possible BUT you dare promise that you're able to resist that temptations in wadever comes next?? Don give the lame excuse that she's alone in this country so you're afraid that things might happen. Let me tell you this! If i'm you, i definitely would want a patch instead of a divorce. Think back. You don even have to shoulder a single cent of your household finance. Every single thing is shouldered by her inclusive of your children education. If you don have money, just a call and you'll have it. Definitely you wouldn't want a divorce. You gave the reason that you love the family alot. Think back again. How many chances were you given alr?? You took things at your advantage. You had fun outside and the sufferings were all shouldered by her ALONE. FYI, IF NOT FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR 2 KIDS, SHE WOULD HAVE LONG BADE GOODBYE TO YOU!!
Advice to J: I rather you end this off fast and quick. Yes! It can bring sufferings to the kids. However, short term sufferings are definitely better than long term sufferings!! Get it over and done with and i believe your kids will definitely stand by you so do us. Nevertheless itz still your call. Make a careful decision that work out best for all. You have my support. :)
Problem 3Told you to end off the sufferings fast and quick years back. You ignored. Every single time when problem arises, you seek help from us. I shall make it clear with you. R/s is between 2 and not more than that. We're only there to advice and support you. Now things happened again. You seek help. We helped. Problem got worst as she felt that we were busybody poking our nose into your affair. You got frustrated of it as to you, family means a lot a lot. Frankly telling you, none of us in the family likes her. We all felt the same. She's not worth your persistence. If you could, listen to us for once. End it off fast if not you will only bring more sufferings to yourself and your dad esp. I do know that you still love her but think of the treatment that you get from her every single time. You're always badly abused. That's not sth that should be happening in a r/s if the couple's loving. Having to see you undergo this process, it's painfully in the heart. Thou we are only cousins but the blood runs in us. So please! Take it as i beg you! Is either you talk and work things out amicably with her. If not be harsh and give a straight slash between the 2 of you. That's all i'm going to say. Final decision still lies in you. SORRY FOR SOME HARSH MEANING.WE CANT BEAR TO SEE YOU UNDERGO THOSE SUFFERINGS YET AND AGAIN. WE WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU. HOWEVER, PLEASE THINK CAREFULLY BEFORE YOU ACT. :)
